[LordsReform-discuss]This realization first came to me when I was putting together a jig-saw puzzle.

Cornelius Fowler fdn at snet.net
Fri, 15 Jun 2007 19:48:24 -0600


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If this is the right answer I would be happy to share a personal story. =
As a famous person once said, "When our why is big enough, what becomes =
immaterial. "  At that moment I knew the most important thing I could do =
was to repair my relationships with my own children because that is what =
what missing from my life.
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